What Creates A Simp & Simping Behaviors

What Creates A Simp & Simping Behaviors

 

1. Lack of Female Attention 

Presently and growing up the lacked the attention of women, especially the women they want and desire in childhood and adulthood. Because they may have lacked female validation in their younger years so they seek it out desperately and become the type of men who will do anything just top get sexual attention from a woman. Often these men were ugly, teased or rejected by important women in their lives like their mother or girls he had crushes on.   

2. Having Negative And/Or Belittling Parents/Siblings

This is why a healthy family structure is necessary for a man's proper mental and emotional development. Abusive parents create needy, emotionally weak and angry children who become angry adults searching for love. Having a negative and abusive mother, father or siblings that took the opportunities to destroy his self esteem makes him extremely needy for female attention to validate his value, confidence and self worth. 

 

3. They Have A Low Self Esteem And Self Perception

 

A person with a low self esteem will always look to be a people pleaser because they just want anybody to "want" them. The need to feel wanted by someone will drive him to accept people and relationships into his life which are unhealthy and toxic just to have someone around. Sometimes a man's low self esteem is based upon his own self perception even if he has good parents. He can have the best parents and family structure but still be his own worst enemy.

4. A Past Bad Breakup 

This pushes him to project all of his energy into one woman therefore giving too much of himself away with each relationship. This creates a needy energy that doesn't just repel women away it leads to him losing himself over time in his romantic relationships. Every time he enters a new romantic relationship he tries even harder not to lose the next woman so he gets needy and overly clingy to her.  

5. He's In Love With The Idea Of "Hollywood" Love 

He believes that his soul mate will find him like the movies and they will be happily ever after. Because he thinks that love is more of a fairytale than actual commitment, sacrifice and work he falls in love with an idea instead the reality of romantic relationships. This results in him falling in love with his emotional mind like a woman brain sees it. Instead of logically seeing the emotions of love feelings as a temporary and ever flowing back and forth. 

6. He's Bought In To The New Age Toxic Masculinity Culture 

Men are taught to believe in the modern culture that they're expressing toxic masculinity if they speak up for themselves and express their wants, preferences, opinions and wants from a woman. If they express the kind of woman they want out loud the women who are not what he desires automatically take offense and attack his level of masculinity. 

A woman is able to express her desires and preferences of a man, and even reject a man outright and unkindly for not being what she wants, but she's not labeled toxic, but men are. Because powerful masculinity is culturally looked down upon as mean or aggressive, he automatically takes the stance that he has to be soft, caring and quiet when he has opposing opinions concerning women, his wants or his life preferences. 

7. It's Safe 

A needy man knows that it’s a guarantee he will get the attention of women if he acts as a submissive man because they'll see him as easy prey. A woman instinctually knows when a man is easy to take advantage of and when he is a safe bet for her to be with because of her own loneliness or lack of looks. 

Safe guys serve as a woman's "friend" because she can easily use him for his non sexual attention and she can dictate the direction of the relationship. This makes her feel safe and secure that regardless of what happens or who else she dates he will be there waiting for her when she wants to talk, vent or complain about the man she's with. 

8. He Was Raised By A Single Mother 

As a child of a single mother he is taught how to be subservient under the label of being a “Good man”. Because she wants to make him the kind of man she wants she turns him into a submissive man. He's used to following his mothers orders and this translates into following his romantic partners rules without question. Over time his submissiveness results in a resentful man in the relationship because he's taught not to speak up for himself and let a woman run the show. 

If he speaks up he quickly backs down because he doesn't want the conflict that it takes to get his way. Instead of speaking up strongly for himself and his wants he swallows his feelings. And over time the woman he's with deteriorates his self esteem and self perception because he's used to letting her lead the way, just like the relationship he had with his mom. 

9. The Comfort Of The “Nice Guy” Persona 

Being the "mr nice guy" is comfortable and doesn’t ruffle feathers. The nice guy is always trying to be nice even when he doesn't feel nice, so he compromises his own desires for the desires of other constantly. Because he wants everyone to like him and see him as the nice guy he avoids any conflicts that would result in him getting his wants or his way. 

Women see him as the safe guy but the never gain a sexual attraction to him because he's never being his true and authentic self. He doesn't give her the fight that she occasionally wants because he's always agreeing with her so she doesn't develop the respect that she needs to have for her man. She can tell when he's not happy and doing something that he doesn't want to. 

She takes note of his over agreeability and doesn't trust him that he can make the necessary decisions to lead the relationship. People like the nice guy, but they don’t respect him. And ultimately he doesn't respect himself because he's not being true to himself, his desires or his feelings. He's wearing a mask out his need to always be approved of which is a sign of a needy and low self esteem having man.   

*This Is From The Book "Stop Simping And Start Pimping: How To Get Women By Using Pimping Instead Og Simping" By The Author The Professor Of Pimpology CLICK HERE For More.........

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